Truly Inspired

I remember while I was pregnant, my friend Leah and I were talking about how becoming a parent changes people. She had a couple of friends who had had children and watched as their priorities, values, and perspectives changed, which sometimes meant falling out of touch with old friends while forming new social circles with other couples with kids. I assured Leah that becoming a parent wouldn't change me.... I had no idea what I was talking about.

The personal change that occurs when you begin the journey of parenthood is so profound there is no way to even begin to explain it. Already, I feel as though becoming a mother has made me a better person, has given me the gift of a much grander perspective on life, and has given me a confidence in my own ability and in the endless opportunities that lie in my future. When I gave birth, I was reborn. What an amazing experience.

I thought when I went back to work that I would spend my time thinking about what I would rather be doing at home with Parker. Actually, I feel more motivated than ever to be my best professional self. I feel more motivated than ever to start my masters degree program (class by class) and to become the best woman I can to show my son what is possible in life with a little hard work. I want to be someone Parker can be proud of and look up to and count on. What better incentive is there?

Maintaining my personal friendships with friends in all stages of their lives remains very important to me, but I can also understand seeking out friendships with other women with children. As amazing as parenthood is, it involves a lot of uncertainty, and having experienced moms around to lean on when needed is invaluable. It is very reassuring to share stories, fears, and questions with people who know exactly what you're talking about. I look forward to being a seasoned mom when some of my other friends have kids so they can call me when they need some mommy support. :) I have also never appreciated or understood my own mom more than I do today. I thank her for teaching me a lot of things about being a wonderful mom.

Ok, those are my deep thoughts for the day. Back to being motivated at work! :)

Sidenote: I saw a funny quote today on one of our students' pieces of art: "Don't sweat petty things and don't pet sweaty things." Don't know why, but that made me laugh out loud.